Balance & the law of attraction

"There are no miracles or coincidences in life; Just that you attract them at some point in time."

I was recently speaking to a friend about the Law of Attraction. And it really got me wondering how many other people might over look

the little things that make our world go round. So here is my little two cents on the subject.

In simple terms the law of attraction basically states that I attract to me whatever I give my focus or energy to. It could be something I want, or something I don't want. The law is impartial, and impersonal.I believe that life is sustained by a constant balance within our universe. The simplest things formulate this

balance. In one of my situations I was constantly giving to others. Advice, food, energy, etc. And because of this law of attraction, I attracted other givers to me. I met some amazing people willing to take me in and give me surf lessons and a hell of a fun time. Why? Because the law of attraction threw us together. You transmit kindness to the universe and the universe balances that by sending kindness back.

So back to this friend I was speaking to.. We were having a conversation about all of his bad luck... and when I say bad luck I mean some atrociously lousy freaking luck. Seriously, I can't even fathom how it's possible to have so much go wrong in such a short period of time, but he accomplished it. If getting fucked over was an Olympic sport he'd have the gold medal! From my perspective what it came down to was his personality, his energy and actions that he put in to the universe. He is a fairly greedy and selfish fellow - and hey if you're reading this don't get mad YOU told me that's the type of person you are. And so you don't come strangle me, I'm leaving you anonymous...so no worries? I hope :D -

Anyways he is constantly transmitting these traits out in to the world, and by law of attraction it's exactly what he is receiving back. Constant greedy selfish people stealing his stuff and taking advantage of him for their own benefit. It's so amazing how quickly and obviously this law works out.

I'm always striving to attract positivity to myself. But let's face it..shit happens. I wish I was a guru or a monk or someone so super calm and tranquil at all times. But alas I am human... and I think it's easy to let the negative stuff rub off on us, and then from us to others...Keeping us in the vicious circle. Constantly sending out negativity, and thus receiving it back. The only way I have been able to break free of this cycle is through self awareness and realistically assessing the person I am.I've learned - especially while traveling - that a little good goes a long way. Things as small as helping someone carry their groceries through a door, giving a friendly smile and hello or even picking up rubbish from the street, all will come back to us for that balance. Typing this out actually sounds silly... I would hope that we were all raised to do these things on a normal basis anyways... but as we get old I feel - at least with myself - that some nice things I do reflexively, and others I couldn't be bothered to go out of my way to do. But it's those things - the ones that make you have to give a little bit extra - that will give a little bit extra back to you.

I could go on and on about this subject.. but don't take my words for it though..try it for yourself. Figure out what it is you want, and convince your mind that you have already received it. Visualize it. Be good!

Whatever you send out the universe will send back to you. It helps those who helps themselves. More importantly allow yourself to be open to the idea. You never know what could attract to yourself :]